Trust your style. It’s home for a reason.
When it comes to decorating your home, there’s no shortage of opinions. Experts say this, magazines say that, and Pinterest? Well, it’s a sea of trends that change by the hour. But here’s a truth we don’t hear enough: loving yourself means trusting your own voice—especially in your own home.

Your home is more than square footage and wall color. It’s your haven. Your safe space. Your story. And no expert, no trend forecast, and no social media post can tell your story quite like you can.
Why Loving Yourself Means Trusting Your Style
Loving yourself isn’t just about affirmations and bubble baths (although those help). It’s about honoring your preferences—without needing approval. That means if you love bold wallpaper and it makes you smile every time you walk past it, then that’s the right choice. If you find peace in neutral tones and simplicity, own it.
When you value your opinion over others, you give yourself permission to follow what feels good, not what looks good to everyone else.
Experts Are Guides—Not the Rule
Interior designers and stylists offer fantastic inspiration. But here’s the secret: even the experts draw from someone’s personal style. They help shape beautiful spaces, but you’re the one who lives there every day. So if an expert says white walls are the trend but you feel drawn to forest green, guess what? That’s your style whispering. Listen to it.
How to Be OK With Choosing Your Style
- Recognize that trends come and go—your comfort lasts longer.
Trends are fun to explore, but they shouldn’t override your comfort. What feels like “you” today may evolve, but it will always feel better than forcing a trend you don’t connect with. - Start small, grow confident.
Not sure how to go all-in with your own style yet? Start with a single room or corner. Pick a rug, paint color, or throw pillow you love—no questions asked. You’ll start to build confidence in your own taste. - Celebrate what makes your home different.
The gallery wall you curated, the quirky lamp you thrifted, or the neon sign that makes your friends say “that’s so you”—that’s what makes your home beautiful. Differences are not design flaws; they’re personality. - Stop seeking permission.
It’s easy to get caught up in “Does this look right?” or “What will people think?” But the only question that really matters is: Do I love it? If yes, then you’ve already succeeded. - Create a space that gives you peace.
When you walk through your front door, you should feel at ease. If that means mismatched furniture, bold art, or a wall of family photos that designers might call “too much,” then it’s just right.

Final Thoughts: Love Yourself Loudly—Even in Your Decor
Loving yourself is about making space for who you truly are, and that includes your physical space. Your home doesn’t have to look like a showroom. It has to feel like you. When you choose your own style over someone else’s ideal, you’re not breaking the rules—you’re living in alignment.
So hang the art you love. Paint the wall that color. Buy the vintage chair that doesn’t “match” anything else.
You don’t need expert approval.
You already have the most important voice of all—yours.








